Friends.. A vacillating definition

I haven't confined myself to think someone to be the best of all my pals. But,more obviously, people have different paradigm for themselves, when it comes to defining "friendship". I remember the blogs, I wrote, viz "Measure of friendship", which eventually got lost during different transitions made in my way of life. But as far as i believe, they don't consummate , a most unequivocal definition ;yet it might have presented a speck of what and how i see them.

i still wonder at people, who do a lot of random socializing, and make friends, even what they call "best friends" , in a matter of no time. It is just, because I have carried myself through the natural sentimentalism of our ingrained culture, which make me to feel so. This is no wonder now, as people have gone a very long way , crossing the cultural boundaries, to make random partners of opposite sex(don't want to use the f-word after all).

Not to stay remote to this current society , i wanna develop a sense of comfort in random socializing, and stay with it.

A day with Namba Pasanga

It has been a long time, we met together and yuva's return from US paved a way for this great rendezvous. It started when sidd car hooted on friday night(4/1/08) at 11 PM followed by a bang on the door. Despite my fatigue and half-sleep walk i recognized all of them with great precision. The excitement of Yuva's surprise visit put the hospitality in a state of oblivion.

After a college-time usual night-stay in my house, we planned for a Luncheon in one of the high class hotels in chennai.As per plans, we made it to Asiana at noon. The party kept rolling with full-spirit as we had some-one for paying our expected exorbitant bills. As we supposed, the orders ranged from champagne to Scotch rather than the usual kf beer to MC whisky. As a matter of fortune,they had no champagne,and hence we quenched our desires with a recommended alternative, Sura's Indian sparklers . However, we managed to get scotch and my all-time favorite shooters.

To add flavour to the party, we made yuva to cut a cake, which read "Namba pasanga welcome Yuva". Asusual, we lavishly smeared cream on yuva's face, and the party diminished to a fine ending.Blurps and hiccups frequented our vocal chords, and we realized that our bellies are starving for food. We drove to the nearest middle class hotel, moderating the expenses made till then.Followed by a heavy meal, we , with super-tight belts, made a desperate wandering for movie tickets.

Without realizing that it is a weekend, we tried for tickets from the worst to the best of the theaters.As we supposed, all our efforts went into the drain.Despite of frequent calls from my house, asking me to return back home, i immediately hit the bed after reaching murali's house.

Commemorating the emotional break-outs, splashes of feelings and excitements ,I returned home on the immediate morning.

Entangled with hopeless creatures

Without a knowledge of discriminating people,surrounded by thankless humans,carrying a broken heart with simmering apprehensions,between fire and the firepan ,counting the disloyal deeds, i walk on a lonely road.

The upcoming surge in energy and the sensex index.

I have a small info to share with you all, which is all about the sudden upswing in the current sensex index.This going to be more interesting for those who spend much of their time in share trading and those who dvelve in mutual funds. Kindly don't come to a judgement that I'm a busy online trader. Not so really,this blog is just a speck of the information provided by the vice-president of Sundaram BNP paribas in a gathering, compounded with my views.

Why the sensex boomed so high, where it is expected to dip atleast by small numbers? How Reliance made a fat profit than that of its high-profile competitors?. I can hear you say that it's because of the cash flowing into our markets from the foreign institution investors(FII)? But why they are pouring such a huge sum of money into the indian markets all of a sudden?. You can readily quit reading this blog if you are quite sure about all of that.

The major factor which determines the nation's currency value is its innate wealth. India is not blessed so much as that of US,UAE or Russia, where minerals,oil and energy is available in abundance correspondingly.India being a peninsula is a curse.Is that so?- "we can catch fishes and sell them in markets"-yes we can, but can we consider catching fish as an elite resource of income for a country. It is the valuable hydrocarbons embedded in the continental reefs which can turn up the country's economy. These continental reefs are not found in abundance and they were not believed to be available in the Indian waters until the Indian satellite launched in 1990 took photographs showing islands of energy resources in Indian waters.

Why the sensex does not rocketed at the time when satellites confirmed India's oil & gas resources?.It is because of our poor Indian policies which were dis-inclined to privatization.India was neglecting such a valuable resource because of the huge fund requirements for excavation, which is around 3000 crores for one km square area . Even the greatest oil-rich countries like the Arabs go for privatization when it comes to oil excavation and enjoy only the royalty out of it.As India loosened the tight for privatization by 2000 and later, many big shots jumped in to dig oil.The reliance stocks hit the roof when it struck oil for the first time.

India, being reluctant to privatization though,enjoys the economical boom whenever it opts for privatization- one big ramp up was during the acquirement of telephone services by BSNL.As the private sector has covered only a small area in Indian waters, we can definitely anticipate such a surge in energy sooner.

So what are all the industries that gets benefited out of this energy boom?.

1.Industries manufacturing oil rigs which are used to pump out oil. - Currently the only industry which manufacture oil rigs is in gujarat, whose production had to be increased by ten folds to meet the upcoming demands.

2.Industries manufacturing special alloy tubes to transport oil and gas - These tubes are made up of special alloy which can withstand the vibrations caused by the slippages of the tectonic plates and can be no way compared to the veeranam cement tubes, which made veeranam water for chennai a mirage.

3.Some of the other energy-dependent industries.

Hence, those mutual funds whose fund managers concentrate on energy sectors are most likely to be gained by the energy surge in the future.

What keeps me on toes

Whenever we ask people "what kinda person they are?". They may give you some funny answers like "hmmm.. that's what I'm trying to figure out for years".

But I'm quite sure about the thing which keeps me on toes. Don't think i spared my sleep to conclude this. I just got to know by concocting all the things where i showed my interest.I am a person who is driven by aspirations. I might have dreamed so much and call them by name aspirations but those factors help me in keeping my life lively and pleasant.

So i have just decided to take the things as it comes and don't worry about the possible outcomes at the worst case.

Contd...

This blog is an attempt to express my views on Harish's blog click here

Good one.. great job ..Very straight.. keep it up. but i have my comments though..

1.The very problem is you had generalised things.First of all, its not specific to any gender-the problem exists in both, but in very less numbers in girls.

2.The most funniest fact is that we cant claim them to give a chance, as it is kinda emotional thing and noone likes to a play a roller-coaster here.So it is our duty to express it at the right way and at the right time. I dont feel it is wise to propose a girl who is a complete stranger to you. Pratically ,it is not necessary that they should have got the same feeling on you.

3.We are most likely to commit the biggest mistake of over-commiting or emotionally attaching ourselves with the loved ones without properly analysing them. I agree with the fact that it's all because of the outcomes of our basic instincts and we may blindfoldly decide to give in so much of ourselves.We may think that falling in love is spontaneous in which sparing time to think about them is foolish but pratically it wont work in the way we think. It is all about how stable we are when it comes to emotions and we definetly deserve some blame for losing ourselves in the wrong one.

"We cant Overanalyse our loved ones for godsake,it's how we are defined in nature."

I agree but if you wanna play a safe game and dont wanna end up at seeing yourselves at bad circumstances of life then you should probably do it. Exceptions are always there and dont let them eat your brains.

4.We always have choices and it differs with genders.We can criticize girls for having greater inclination to wealth and money, but at the same time we cant deny that boys are captivated by beauty and figure.

I agree that most of the above views seems idealistic but being objectivistic in this case will not pay anything other than sorrows.Despite all these facts, we are always driven by nature and end up banging our head on the wall. Practice makes perfect.

After a long time

it has been a very long time ,i penned down my thoughts.. Not a sharp blogger though, i am good at my own style of writing. So i kickoff of my first blog right now..