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This blog is an attempt to express my views on Harish's blog click here

Good one.. great job ..Very straight.. keep it up. but i have my comments though..

1.The very problem is you had generalised things.First of all, its not specific to any gender-the problem exists in both, but in very less numbers in girls.

2.The most funniest fact is that we cant claim them to give a chance, as it is kinda emotional thing and noone likes to a play a roller-coaster here.So it is our duty to express it at the right way and at the right time. I dont feel it is wise to propose a girl who is a complete stranger to you. Pratically ,it is not necessary that they should have got the same feeling on you.

3.We are most likely to commit the biggest mistake of over-commiting or emotionally attaching ourselves with the loved ones without properly analysing them. I agree with the fact that it's all because of the outcomes of our basic instincts and we may blindfoldly decide to give in so much of ourselves.We may think that falling in love is spontaneous in which sparing time to think about them is foolish but pratically it wont work in the way we think. It is all about how stable we are when it comes to emotions and we definetly deserve some blame for losing ourselves in the wrong one.

"We cant Overanalyse our loved ones for godsake,it's how we are defined in nature."

I agree but if you wanna play a safe game and dont wanna end up at seeing yourselves at bad circumstances of life then you should probably do it. Exceptions are always there and dont let them eat your brains.

4.We always have choices and it differs with genders.We can criticize girls for having greater inclination to wealth and money, but at the same time we cant deny that boys are captivated by beauty and figure.

I agree that most of the above views seems idealistic but being objectivistic in this case will not pay anything other than sorrows.Despite all these facts, we are always driven by nature and end up banging our head on the wall. Practice makes perfect.